{"id":155,"date":"2019-02-28T00:26:39","date_gmt":"2019-02-28T00:26:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.wehavedelusionsofgrandeur.com\/v3\/?page_id=155"},"modified":"2019-10-01T21:09:28","modified_gmt":"2019-10-01T21:09:28","slug":"code-of-conduct","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.wehavedelusionsofgrandeur.com\/v3\/charter\/code-of-conduct\/","title":{"rendered":"Code of Conduct"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[vc_row][vc_column width=&#8221;3\/5&#8243;][vc_column_boxed_text el_text_title=&#8221;Article 1 &#8211; Respect and Fun&#8221;]<strong><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">Section 1 &#8211; The Leadership, Membership, and Everyone Else<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The Leadership Team\u2019s mandate is to hold respect and fun sacrosanct, in that order. \u00a0 When a conflict arises between respect and fun, respect always wins. \u00a0 The Membership is to treat other people, guildies and strangers alike, according to those same values.<\/p>\n<p>Delusions players are kind, helpful, and generous with knowledge, not only with each other, but with nubs in general chat, pugs in flashpoints and operations, and randos in warzones. \u00a0 We don\u2019t make fun of nubs, imperiously boss around pugs in PvE, or mock and belittle bads in PvP.\u00a0 Life\u2019s too short to be shitty to each other.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">Section 2 &#8211; No Sticks in Asses<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That being said, you don\u2019t have to suffer in silence.\u00a0 If the nubs are irritating you, the PvE pugs are hopelessly incompetent, and the PvP trolls have your dander up, talk shit in guild chat\/discord.\u00a0 We support each other and we\u2019re there for each other; that\u2019s a facet of mutual respect.\u00a0 What\u2019s not permitted is to vent those frustrations at the people causing them.\u00a0 We don\u2019t treat people with disrespect, even when we feel they richly deserve it.\u00a0 Keep it in-house.[\/vc_column_boxed_text][\/vc_column][vc_column width=&#8221;2\/5&#8243;][vc_single_image image=&#8221;161&#8243; img_size=&#8221;full&#8221; style=&#8221;vc_box_rounded&#8221;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=&#8221;3\/5&#8243;][vc_column_boxed_text el_text_title=&#8221;Article 2 &#8211; Conflict Resolution&#8221;]<span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>Section 1 &#8211; Drama Happens<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes things get heated, people say things they <em><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">actually<\/span><\/em> mean, and later have to pretend they <em><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">didn&#8217;t<\/span><\/em> actually mean.\u00a0 That&#8217;s awkward.<\/p>\n<p>Guild drama sucks, but it&#8217;s inevitable.<\/p>\n<p>Most guilds have a policy, including this one long ago, that essentially states &#8220;you&#8217;re adults, work it out.&#8221;\u00a0 But that&#8217;s dumb.\u00a0 Even honestly mature adults have a hard time sorting out conflicts alone.\u00a0 Delusions is a guild where all members receive the support they need.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>Section 2 &#8211; The Tattle Tale Principle<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>As soon as you perceive tension between yourself and another guildy, feel confident and safe to raise your concern with a member of the Leadership Team right away.\u00a0 Tension most often results from simple misunderstandings, ones that outside perspectives can rapidly diagnose and easily remedy.\u00a0 And when the cause of tension is not simple, then it&#8217;s especially a good idea to involve Leadership as early as possible.[\/vc_column_boxed_text][\/vc_column][vc_column width=&#8221;2\/5&#8243;][vc_single_image image=&#8221;166&#8243; img_size=&#8221;full&#8221;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=&#8221;3\/5&#8243;][vc_column_boxed_text el_text_title=&#8221;Article 3 &#8211; Human Dignity&#8221;]<strong><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">Section 1 &#8211; The Great Mystery<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If one is to understand the great mystery, one must study all its aspects, not just the dogmatic, narrow view of the Jedi or the Sith.\u00a0 Delusions is not a guild for people who enjoy polemics, but rather is a guild for individuals who understand and value balance.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>Section 2 &#8211; Zero Tolerance of Indignity<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Delusions has a Zero-Tolerance policy for undignified behavior in all guild communication channels.\u00a0 In guild chat, the forums, or in discord, the following is utterly unacceptable:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Behavior that promotes racial\/ethnic hatred.<\/li>\n<li>Comments that include recognized racial\/ethnic slurs.<\/li>\n<li>Comments that use legitimate group titles derogatorily.<\/li>\n<li>Comments that insult religions.<\/li>\n<li>Comments that insult genders or sexual preferences.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>You will not say that something you dislike is so gay, nor will you say that someone you dislike is a faggot, nor will you greet a friend by calling him nigga, nor will you confuse Muslims with terrorists, nor will you refer to your girlfriend as your bitch, nor will you conflate victory with rape.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>Section 3 &#8211; Low Tolerance of Special Snowflakes<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Delusions has a Low-Tolerance policy for the following types of players:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Those who are easily triggered,<\/li>\n<li>Those who are smug, sanctimonious, condescending, self-righteousness,<\/li>\n<li>Compulsive virtue-signalers.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The guild leans somewhat, as all must, so the tolerance here is not the same &#8220;zero&#8221; 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